I tried to explain to my kids, a little bit, about what I am going to do. They are 11, 8 and 4 they understood for their ages. I don't know what else to tell them or how else to prepare them. I feel like I'm a little lost myself so I certainly can't lead someone else along. Hopefully it will only affect them in the best way. I hope we can make this a positive experience and learn from the hard parts: whatever they may be.